Just a leisurely Sunday afternoon brunch shower celebrating the upcoming wedding of two wonderful people, Kevin and Berry, in the urban garden of Mr. Tom Spicer at one sweet long table filled with friends. We had a bloody mary for the mens (and ladies had a few too of course), a lovely little champagne bar for the gals and flowers by Bows and Arrows. It was perfect. See below for more details – it was too good not to share!
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A savvy bride’s guide
on what to send and when
6-8 months out: mail your save the date (destination wedding save the dates can be sent up to a year in advance)
4-6 months: Prepare to order invitations (Custom invitations can take up to 6 weeks to design and produce)
3 months: Get envelopes to the calligrapher and start assembling invitations (Note* handwritten addresses are best but computer printed calligraphy is ok too. DO NOT use office labels and be sure to spell out street/avenue, state names, etc. No abbreviations please.)
6-8 weeks: mail formal invitations
3 weeks: collect RSVPs (Response cards are typically requested back 3 weeks before the wedding.)
2 weeks: If you still haven’t received a response 2 to 3 weeks before the event that’s when you can start making those polite reminder calls to the stragglers.
Thank you notes – you typically have a 3-4 week grace period after the wedding or shower to send a note… but better late than never.
Remember, the more time you give your guests the more accurate your head count will be!
Check out the links at the bottom for a freebie timing worksheet!
How to assemble your invitation:
The invitation is on the bottom, print side up. (A sheet of tissue paper can be placed over it.) Stack all other inserts on top of the invitation in order of size (smallest on top). The reply card goes under the (stamped) reply envelope’s flap. Everything goes into the envelope with the printed sides facing up. If you are using an inner envelope, place it, unsealed, into the outer envelope with the names facing the back flap.
Great reads for more info:
Emily Post’s Etiquette: Emily Post and The Emily Post Institute have been a great resource for brides for almost 100 years. So you could say she knows her stuff.
Derek BlasBerg’s “Very Classy”
Download the “Timing is Everything” Worksheet: PDF | XLS | ZIP
xoxo,
Photo Sources: Soolip, Bridal Musings, Beast Pieces
If I had to pick a color it would be white but my second runner up is definitely gray or black – any day, for any reason. Black dresses are slimming right? Well unconventional as it might be (oh, wait, now we love it more) a black wedding dress is something to consider. I had a girlfriend who wore green and asked everyone else to wear white or black. I loved that idea… Shake it up a little.
Two school teachers — she, graphic design and he, soccer coach and english teacher — in her parents backyard at their house retreat on the river with their closest friends and furry ones too in a quaint, shabby chic, diy, little country, uber lovely celebration on a perfectly sunny November day. Enjoy the wedding of Allie and Scott photographed by Emma Goode and held at Brazos House Retreat.